Control Freak

I've been a very independent woman my whole life and i've never tried to control anyone but now i am dating someone who tries to control every aspect of my life. He constantly controls me and always has to be right. He can never take responsibility for his actions or feel bad for anything that he does. He gets mad at me when i'm rude but he never sees what he does to me. He's such an arrogant prick and i don't get why he can never be nice. I thought when people are in love they need to also know how to be nice but iguess he doesnt know what to do... I wish he would be nice.